Dealing with Rejection in Your Marriage: A Devotional

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” —Psalm 34:18 (NIV)

Rejection in marriage can feel like a deep wound. Whether it’s an unkind word, a lack of affection, or simply feeling unseen by your spouse, these moments of rejection can shake your sense of worth and security. You may start to ask, “What’s wrong with me?” or “Why won’t they listen or care?” These are painful thoughts, but the truth is, even in the most difficult moments, God remains present and fully engaged with you.

Recognizing Your Pain

First, it’s important to acknowledge that feeling rejected hurts. Ignoring or minimizing the pain doesn’t allow for healing; in fact, it can cause bitterness to take root. But remember, your value is not determined by another person’s actions. In Christ, you are fully known, fully loved, and fully accepted.

Rejection can be a place where Satan tries to whisper lies about your worth, but God’s Word reminds us otherwise. Psalm 139:14 says, “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” You a…